Secretly Desired
Secretly we all long for a companion. We all have a desire to share this life with someone special. I believe we dream of it, but yet many are afraid of the very dream.
When you're independent and living life on your own it's hard to open up and let someone be a part of that journey. It is no longer you, but now you have to make sacrifices for another human being. You now have to include another's opinion on every decision.
Others have been hurt so much that they build this false protection and they guard their heart like a drug dog guards drugs. Ain't no body getting by. If I do open up will they just hurt me, or they silently believe they're not good enough for the man or woman they desire.
Others lives are so busy and focused on their future that they don't focus on finding someone. They know if that person is out there for them, then when the time is right they're paths will meet, and it won't be the same as anyother. That individual will just stick out and keep popping in their head. They have confidence in their own identity and they don't need another human to validate them. They know their confidence and validation only comes from within.
I don't believe it will be something one has to force themselves to want. I believe if that person has the qualities you desire and you're faith is the same, then it won't be a game of tug a war. I believe it will be mutual and easy flow.
We put so much pressure on each other in this generation to seek the right person, but if we just chilled out and embraced life then I believe when we feel and see that connection it will just be. Maybe I've seen too many romantic movies and heard too many love songs, but why's it got to be so dang hard?
Life is hard enough!
When you're independent and living life on your own it's hard to open up and let someone be a part of that journey. It is no longer you, but now you have to make sacrifices for another human being. You now have to include another's opinion on every decision.
Others have been hurt so much that they build this false protection and they guard their heart like a drug dog guards drugs. Ain't no body getting by. If I do open up will they just hurt me, or they silently believe they're not good enough for the man or woman they desire.
Others lives are so busy and focused on their future that they don't focus on finding someone. They know if that person is out there for them, then when the time is right they're paths will meet, and it won't be the same as anyother. That individual will just stick out and keep popping in their head. They have confidence in their own identity and they don't need another human to validate them. They know their confidence and validation only comes from within.
I don't believe it will be something one has to force themselves to want. I believe if that person has the qualities you desire and you're faith is the same, then it won't be a game of tug a war. I believe it will be mutual and easy flow.
We put so much pressure on each other in this generation to seek the right person, but if we just chilled out and embraced life then I believe when we feel and see that connection it will just be. Maybe I've seen too many romantic movies and heard too many love songs, but why's it got to be so dang hard?
Life is hard enough!
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